Why Are You So Stressed?
Have you been feeling stressed continuously for months? Have all usual tricks that help people get rid of stress worked way below your expectations?...
Have you been feeling stressed continuously for months? Have all usual tricks that help people get rid of stress worked way below your expectations? Are you getting desperate and go at lengths to manage your stress, yet your successes are temporary? If any of your answers to those question is “yes”, it is time for a change in tactics. Instead of waging guerilla warfare against stress, you have to prepare a regular campaign. Take your time, have a cup of coffee, sit back, and start preparing a list of things that make you feel stressed. Once completed, it will be an excellent weapon against long-time stress – one that may win this war in a few weeks.
The first part of your list should include all problems you have or used to have in your life. Be thorough – sometimes you may be very stressed because of past problems if they remain unsolved or if you suffer a defeat.
Then, populate the second part of your list with all the people that make you feel stressed. Friends, family or workmates – it doesn’t really matter. If you feel uneasy or stressed because of someone, put him or her on the list. Remember that it is ok to cool down or break those relationships that make you feel bad, especially that if you are unhappy with meeting someone the chances are this person doesn’t like you very much either.
The next section of your notes will be devoted to more positive activities. Try to think of every activity you should do to make things better. How should your lifestyle be changed to make you feel less stressed? Do you need a change in your family life? Maybe changing your job will help? Or maybe you just need a bunch of new friends to meet? Take your time and think about it – this will be framework of your life plan for the next few months or years.
After you find solutions to most your problems, you should create a list of activities you want to do, but are not included in your daily routine. You have to make your life fuller and funnier if you are to survive – only fun and enjoying your life as it is can keep the stress level in check. So, make sure that you included all activities that make you happy!
When the list is ready, you know more or less what you should do to get rid of your stress. The only thing you should keep in mind is to read the list regularly (once a month is usually enough) and keep it up-to-date. If you follow your own advice, your stress level will fall down quickly and will never rise again.
The Author: Andrew John reports on stress, stress relief and how to combat stress. For more information on and , just click on the above links.